The intricacies of a Boy-Girl-Boy Threesome ménage à trois.

Hello there, my favourite pervy bunch. Today, I want to talk about something that can be a little taboo and controversial, but nevertheless fascinating: threesomes. Specifically, the intricacies of a boy-girl-boy ménage à trois.

Before I get into the juicy stuff. Let’s get the dry stuff out of the way. First and foremost, communication is absolutely essential. Whether you're in a committed relationship or not, it's important to have an open and honest conversation with all parties involved. This means discussing boundaries, expectations, desires, and fears. It's crucial to be on the same page and make sure everyone is comfortable with the situation before proceeding.

From a psychological point of view, threesomes can be complicated. They can trigger jealousy, insecurity, and even competition. It's important to be aware of these potential emotional risks and to make sure you're prepared to handle them. It's also important to make sure you have a strong emotional connection with your partner(s) and that everyone is on board with the experience.

ThreeSome with a professional. The hard stuff is that there are certainly risks involved in a threesome, both physical and emotional. It's important to use protection and get tested regularly for sexually transmitted infections. I am the type of person who always prefers to deal with a professional. If you're contemplating a threesome, then consider a professional sex worker to take you on that journey. Two professionals in fact in this case would be better than one. Make sure you're all on the same page and that you have clear expectations.

ThreeSome with friends. If you're thinking of having a threesome with friends, while it may seem like a comfortable and the more appealing option, be aware that it can potentially ruin the friendship. I actually have a personal story about this. A friend of mine had a threesome with another friend, and it ended up causing a rift in their friendship that never fully healed. It's important to consider the potential consequences and make sure you're prepared for any outcome. And weighing out if it’s worth it.

The Challenges. Physically, threesomes can be challenging. It's important to stay safe and avoid any injuries. Some of us most definitely will walk away with minor bruising. You just don’t know at times when you get caught in the moment, who’s coming and going! Literally 😈 Communication is key, so make sure you discuss what you're comfortable with beforehand. And if at any point during the experience you feel uncomfortable or want to stop, it's important to speak up and communicate your feelings.

Should you go there at all? My personal opinion is that it's not for everyone. It requires a lot of trust, communication, and emotional maturity. It's important to make sure you're doing it for the right reasons and that you're comfortable with the situation. Same goes for the other parties that you are with. If you start with care here, you will end with care in the bedroom. And it’s never a bad thing, agreed? Agreed.

And speaking of personal opinions, let me share one of my own. I actually had one unsuccessful attempt at a BGB threesome. My girlfriend at the time who was going through an intense experimentation phase of her sex life had arranged a very interesting situation for me, involving two very good looking boys. But I chickened out. Or maybe the boys weren’t good looking enough for me ;) In retrospect, I'm glad I didn't go through with that particular one. For me, the fantasy is much more erotic than the reality. And you know what? That's perfectly okay. We're all different, and what turns one person on might not work for someone else. Sometimes fantasy is much better to stay fantasy and not be tarnished by a clumsy trashy reality.

Now, to end things on a lighter note, let's talk about the dynamics of a boy-girl-boy threesome. I once heard a joke that it's like a game of musical chairs, except there's no chairs and everyone's naked. Okay, it's not the best joke, but you get the point. It can be a little complicated to navigate all the different desires and needs of multiple people, but with good communication and a sense of humour, it can also be a lot of fun. Double penetration, yes please! Umm who’s not a fan of that? And why? It is very orgasmic when done right. But for the most part, you would want to avoid those guys who are just ticking off boxes of what they saw on Pornhub, and you want them to actually be in tune with you and be taking care of you. Yeah just like in my fantasy ;) Instead of being there only for the glory. And probably first and the only BGB in their life. Also the guys can’t be homophobic (too much). The forever tricky sword crossing incident. Mmm share that cringe memory with your mate.

So there you have it, f*ckers. Threesomes can be exhilarating, but they're not for everyone. Communication, safety, and emotional awareness are key. And if you're like me and prefer to keep the fantasy in your mind, that's perfectly okay too. At the end of the day, the most important thing is to do what feels right for you and to always keep things consensual and safe.

I always love to hear from my pervy readers and learn about their experiences with the topic at hand. Have you ever been in a ménage à trois boy-girl-boy? What were your thoughts on it? Did it enhance your relationship or cause problems? Leave a comment and share your thoughts with the community. Let's keep the conversation going!

 

Love,
Lexi, XX