The Ultimate Guide to 🐱 Pussy Licking: Part 3 - What Not to Do

What not to do:

• Cold hands. Please, this one is self explanatory I think. Ice cold hands, as a first introductory touch. Mmmm no.
• Lack of lubrication. If you’re going down there before she’ve had the chance to naturally arouse. Then edible Lube is your new best friend. Pick a flavour that you like and Voila! enjoy!
• Avoid starting with hard, vigorous, and aggressive moves. Remember that the clitoris is a sensitive area and needs a gentle soft intro touch to open up. Think of it as a little precious flower that needs time to bloom. So, be super gentle and work up the heat gradually for maximum pleasure.
• Slowing down the TEMPO or INTENSITY of the moves after you've worked up the heat is a big no-no. This can bring the experience back to zero and undo all your hard work. So, keep up the pace and intensity to make sure you're moving in the right direction. Gradual increase in both, no surprises here please. Down turn in tempo and intensity = definitely a vibe kill.
• Intense eye contact during oral sex. While some people might enjoy intense eye contact, it's important to remember that natural intimacy should come first. If you're trying too hard to make eye contact while down there, you may end up taking away from the experience. Keep it natural and relaxed, and let the pleasure flow. Some couples could love it. That’s where knowing your partner well, will answer this particular question for you. I will most probably burst out in laughter if someone, while busy down there be trying to give me intense stares wide open eyes and all. Natural, all should come natural baby. Without trying too hard.
• Finally, one of the trickiest things for a new guy to navigate is when his partner goes quiet just before orgasm. Don't make the mistake of misreading the signs and changing up your technique or intensity. You might be on the right track and just about to make her scream with pleasure (and let the neighbours know what’s up).

So these are my NO’s - Feel free to add yours below.

Love,
Lexi, XX