SEX BY OURSELVES...FAP VERSUS FIDDLE.

     Adult Matchmaker has come up with some interesting statistics about masturbation. So I wanted to have a look at what some of the main differences between men and women, when it comes to sex with ourselves.

     So on a social level I think we know that men tend to masturbate more frequently than women do, but why is that, why are men more comfortable with flogging that phallus? According to Adult Matchmakers stats, women are less likely to masturbate than men but are more likely to masturbate once a week than men. Obviously women are at a slight disadvantage to men when it comes to spontaneous masturbation. Men have a tool that can be stimulated with more discretion and women don’t. I really think that the amount both sexes masturbate have more to do with impulse and comfort. The reality is that men can quite easily masturbate during work hours when women generally have to wait till they’re in a more discreet and comfortable setting. Men are able to go for a flog in the bathroom, while sitting at a desk or even at a park (which I don’t recommend for legal purposes) and because of this they can give into their impulses more so than women can. The fact that a lot of women tend to use vibrators to masturbate is also a huge factor in the amount we play that fiddle because even the quiet vibrators are too noisy for the workplace or mum and dads bathroom! So those limitations give way to constraint and not to mention that historically women are supposed to be in more control of their urges.

     I also think men are more likely to take more risks when it comes to their urges because it seems a man’s open sexuality is more socially acceptable than a woman’s. It’s a myth that men have higher sex drives than women so therefore find it harder to control themselves. So it’s obvious there’s still a great divide between sexes when it comes to how and when we masturbate, so it’s time for a change then. As women we have to own our sexuality even more than we have learnt to already. We have to be proud and open of the fact we have urges that need to be met, that we are as entitled to self-stimulate when the need arises. Now I’m in no way saying that we should walk into work and tell our bosses we need some me “polish that bean” time during work hours. What I am saying is that we need to even the playing field, make some special me time, play that fiddle with the love and care it deserves, flick that bean like you mean it, show your body some lovin. And hey, you know that it’s good for your mind, body and soul, a good flick always puts a smile on your face. So try being a bit more adventurous and don’t allow social constraints to dictate when you give into those urges!

 

Now go polish that bean or flog that phallus!

 

Love Lexi XXX