POSITION OF THE WEEK....THE REVERSE COWGIRL.
Not every sex position is bound to feel good the first time you try it, in fact most have to be tried and tested numerous times before you reach just the right formula. The reverse cowgirl is certainly one of those positions you have to test a few times before you start to love it. The position seems simple enough in theory, lay your man down and sit on his cock with your back facing him and ride. No, not so simple. Firstly, it’s one of the more hazardous positions for your male lover, most penile breakages and injuries occur whilst doing the reverse cowgirl. It’s easy to see how it could happen. You can’t see his face so can’t notice if he’s expressing any discomfort or unease, you get a little over ambitious and start riding like the clappers, his cock momentarily slips out, you don’t realise and slam down hard on his cock bending it backwards and breaking it. Ouch, that’ll definitely put an end to your night and probably to any other future bedroom shenanigans. The reverse cowgirl can also be pretty tiring when continuously bouncing up and down, so what’s the point if you’re so tired you just want to give up. If you wanted to tone your ass great, but don’t expect an orgasm if your bouncing goes on for an hour. The position can sadly also be very painful for ladies who’s lovers have an erection that bends away from him or even bending too far towards him. The feeling of doing reverse with those kind of cocks is akin to having Captain Hook fuck you with his um, hook.
After reading all of that negative info you must be thinking why on earth would I even bother attempting the reverse cowgirl, well, let me tell you why you should keep riding. Firstly, it’s the perfect position to include multiple forms of stimulation during sex. With your back facing your lover, he or she could sit up slightly and play with your nipples or clit while you ride, while you return the favour with some ball tickling or fingering. Also if your lover’s an ass fan like myself, then they get to enjoy the most spectacular view. Not to mention they’re in a better position to comfortably watch the beauty of their cock slipping in and out of your aroused orchid. Plus, if you’re an unfortunate being and happen to pull some unappealing sex faces, then the reverse cowgirl is your new best friend.
Another benefit you may find enticing is this. A large number of men tend to curl their toes when attempting to slow or stop ejaculation. By facing his feet when doing the reverse cowgirl, you’re in a perfect position to help prolong the sex. If you spot him curling those toes the best thing to do is change up your movement. You can slow down a bit or you can alternate between varying movements. You could grind back and forwards instead of up and down, you can also grind your pelvis in a circular motion or just bounce up and down just on the head of the cock. Alternating movements not only feels good but it makes things more interesting, continuous repetitive penetration can get pretty boring after a while.
Something I find really important to achieving great sex is comfort, your body has to be comfortable in order to fully enjoy itself. There’s a simple tip I recommend using when getting into position to perform the reverse cowgirl. So after you’ve sat down and inserted your lover’s penis, lean forward placing your palms down on the bed, this will help support your body weight and take pressure off your thighs. When your comfy slide your bum back a little, by doing this it gives your lover the feeling of extra pressure on his cock. Sliding back a bit creates firmer friction when bouncing or grinding, heightening the sensation for his penis.
So there you have it, some pro’s and cons of practicing the reverse cowgirl position. I think there are definitely more pros than cons if performed correctly, of course if it’s not make sure to have the phone handy in an emergency situation.
Keep on riding lovers.
Love Lexi XXX
