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FUN AND GAMES.....THE ROLE PLAY AND BONDAGE GOODIE BAG.

     

      So I’ve got about five absolutely essential bit of kit that I cannot leave the house without for a dirty weekend, ok, ok, you doubt that I ONLY have five. Well you’re right but I thought I’d ease you all into my world slowly, but you are all correct, there’s so much more…. hehehe. Let’s just start with the easy ones first & maybe if you’re all good little kiddies I’ll share some more.

      So first thing is a fantasy outfit, best place to get them I find is either a really well equipped sex shop or online. You’ve got a much wider range online & if you shop with a really reputable retailer their customer service team can be extremely helpful with all your needs. I actually have two go to outfits, I know the first is a little cliché but hey it makes my ass look totally appetising & edible & that bit of sexy goodness is my maids outfit. I love roleplaying the naughty maid who gets busted masturbating by her male, or female (wink wink to the boys) employer, you can imagine what kind of shenanigans go on after that discovery. But my favourite has to be the sexy burglar outfit, ok admittedly it’s a cat woman outfit that I’ve customised with some stripes, but it’s hell sexy & it shows off all my lady bumps & who doesn’t love a bit of leather or latex on a sexy bird. The sexy burglar outfit is the perfect outfit to introduce some softcore bondage play. You know the kind of scenario, owner gets home to find a cat burglar robbing their safe full of precious jewels, in the struggle to detain the burglar, the thief is unmasked as they try to evade capture. The home owner is startled to find the masked criminal is in fact a sexy brunette with a heaving bosom. Are we slightly seduced yet, of course we are, run with the image. Naturally the owner has to find a way to detain the thief, here’s where the handcuffs come in, but the thief attempts to escape her bonds & has to be punished. See where I’m heading? So handcuffs are a great tool to use for novices, try to find ones that have a good amount of soft cushioning, just in case things get a little rough. You can get leg cuffs as well to go with the handcuffs, they’re generally a great introduction to bondage & as they’re so common in sex play these days they won’t alarm your partner. Personally I like my bonds to be soft rope for the practice of being bound & secured with the art of Kinbaku, translated meaning “the beauty of tight binding”, more commonly known in the western world as “shibari”, but we can cover that subject another time.

     So that’s role play & bondage covered, now let’s talk about the discipline side of this role play. Since there are a number of common items that can be used for discipline, yes I’m talking about the pleasure of pain side of things, ie: belts, hands (palms), slippers, I absolutely have to keep two pieces of equipment that are strictly dedicated to bondage & discipline. Those two items are a super soft latex pussy whip & a paddle. A pussy whip can be used anywhere on the body but as it’s made of latex & it’s strands are so soft, I prefer to use it as a pussy whip, yes a small whip that whips my surprise, surprise, pussy! The paddle dishes out more pain but as it’s a dull thudding pain I find that it’s a great spanking tool for beginners, trust me it only hurts as much or as little as you want it to. Just be sure to create some safe words, safe words are trust words you can & your sexy friend can both use when things are getting a bit too intense & a break is needed or you want things to come to an end. You guessed it, these are the tools used to punish the naughty, naughty cat burglar.

      Last bit of all important goodie bag kit is the vital vibrator. Now the make of vibrator is definitely a personal preference, so just your favourite one, or three should do. I like to use it as a buffer tool, by buffer tool I mean a toy that can give your partner a bit of a break & something to provide alternate pleasure sensations, I mean there’s only so much you can take advantage of your appendages when you’re pushing a five plus hour sex session. Not to mention who doesn’t love a bit of clit or ass stimulation during fucking right, um bonus sensation moments, come on people who’s going to say no to heightened pleasure?!

     So there we have it, a brief peek a boo into my fun & games sexy goodie bag, now go try create your own with your partner or fuck buddy & have some ultra stimulating fun times.

 

Enjoy & be safe everyone!

 

Love Lexi XXX