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Give your girl a handjob!

Give your girl a handjob!

    You heard me right. Women, just like men, wish to be pleasured in bed - and penetration isn't the only way to get there. Just as men enjoy blowjobs and handjobs, women enjoy oral and fingering. So for the love of sex - give your girl a handjob! Here are 12 steps to give your girl a handjob and blowjob that is orgasmic and will leave her wanting more!

  1. Your fingers are much more agile, flexible and able than your penis. They make for easier tools of stimulation. Ensure your nails are clean, short and smooth to avoid any injury. 
  2. Use your fingers on the outside of her body too. Never forget that your fingers can create delectable sensations across the skin, so alternate between your hands and try to involve the rest of her body - her breasts, thighs, hips, stomach and bottom. As you make your way to your meal, use your fingers as a guide telling her where you are going to kiss next. 
  3. As you begin to eat her out, start gently and test the waters. Usually, it's best to start a little bit below the clit and work your way up to it.
  4. Lick her vulva, push your tongue in between her folds and up until you feel the pea-sized ball that is her clit. Lightly lick it and see how she responds. If she pushes into you she may like more pressure, if she pulls away she might need more warming up.
  5. If she isn’t ready for full-on action, return to kissing her and cover her vagina with your hand. Both holding it and warming it up. Don’t press too hard - just get her used to having your attention there.
  6. Slowly let one of your fingers trace around the outside of her vagina before making its way into her opening. 
  7. Proceed slowly and carefully for the first one - show her how much you enjoy the first every time. 
  8. Make sure she is aroused and wet, if she isn't you could use your mouth or lubricant. 
  9. Focus on her clit lightly with one hand and use the other hand to explore inside of her. The best movement to return to is always as if you're gesturing for someone to come closer to you. However you will find other things that work for her as you go. 
  10. You could vary the movement by stroking your hand upwards, touching the outer lips of her vagina and touching her inner thighs. This creates a ‘tease sensation.’ Be slow with this movement initially and gradually increase the pressure with your hands.
  11. Your woman might favour a fast side-to-side motion or a diagonal movement around the clitoris area for an orgasm.
  12. Providing pleasure to your woman with your hands is also a fun technique to explore and stimulate her G-spot.

      If you want to learn how to do this we have willing participants at Nirvana, at Michelle’s, RPM and our outcall service My Girls who will guide you through the process and give you confidence in your ability to please women.
Lexi, XX

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