How to initiate touch with a lady
Making sure she feels comfortable and you're not rejected are the main prerogatives. How do you make sure your action goes down well?
Breaking the barrier
Incidental touching can deepen experiences. To break the barrier use touching as something that accompanies another action. Such as a hug upon meeting, you never get a chance to re-do your first impression so be open and warm and try and break the touch barrier at the start of the date. develop. Even the most confident men can be slow to touch you due to the fear of making you feel uncomfortable.
When sharing a story
When talking, sharing a story or watching something together, use this time as a chance to "react" together. If something shocking, scary or funny happens to break the barrier by touching their arm. This is a natural movement we do when comfortable with people, so try not to question it if you're feeling awkward.
When joking around
If you're in a dynamic where you feel like you've entered kindergarten with your date, then show that. Jokingly tease them, bump them into things, shove them lightly. This can be a fun way to play around and break the touch barrier.
Use the noise to your advantage
If it's ever too noisy where you are, use this as a chance to get closer to your date. Not to the point of speaking into your ear, but leaning in, almost touching, able to graze against each other during movements.
This is a cliche one but it works. When walking make sure you're close enough for your hands to brush against each other. Guage her reaction before bumping hands a little more and eventually holding hands.
Just remember these experiences are shared by both of you, don't get so caught up in thinking it out and act on intuition.