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     So when I was a BDSM Mistress flogging was probably one of the favourite things to inflict…haha. I’m a slight sadist yes I know.

     I preferred to use the Florentine flogging method which is a two handed style flagellation used in BDSM. So what is Florentine flogging you ask? Well it involves the rhythmic use of two matching floggers used in each hand of the flogger. The term comes from the illusion of Florentine fencing, an anarchist style where the fighter uses two swords.

     Now you don’t want to be playing with swords now do you so I recommend finding the right flogger that suits you. You could use a cat of nine tails, which is my preference. My cat of nine tails had hooks at the end attached to them for the hardcore BDSM devotees. For those of you who don’t know what a flogger is, it is a sadistic tool comprised of a handle and lengthy tails called falls.

     For those of you who enjoy the sensation of flogging as you know there are two sensations with flogging. The first being the sting felt on the surface of the skin & the other being the thud, a much deeper feeling of pain, also known as the “sweet spot”. In the wrong hands you can be hurt, for beginners I recommend a flogger with thinner & less tails. Very heavy floggers can be hard to control if not used expertly, so be wary because let me tell you it kills your butt cheeks.

     So the floggers to use for beginners, rubber floggers give a very satisfying sting but they can cause cuts & abrasions if used in the wrong hands. Leather floggers are for the more experienced & devotees of hard pain so steer clear if you’re not there yet! Nylon when looped can also really hurt. If you’re looking for some real hurt try a chain flogger, not for the faint hearted I can tell you.

     You can get mini rubber floggers to try some play before you move on to greater things. Be aware you have to be in the correct position to be flogged, I think the best position to be in is bent over a bench or even your bed for some comfortability. Ball handled floggers are the best ones to use in pairs, they have great grip & so are more easily mastered. Just a small tip, warm up those butt cheeks before you are about to receive a flogging, you’ll need it trust me. Try some squats or something & if you really love that pain then get some alcohol on the ready so wipe into those wounds for an extra kind of torment…haha, yes as I said I am a bit sadistic but my clients we’re those special types with an incredible pain tolerance, plus I specialised in extreme torture.

     So there you go that’s flogging or flagellation for you. So how game are you to try?? Go to a professional first & you’ll be fine…trust me!!!


Love Lexi XXX