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FETISH OF THE WEEK...GROUP SEX & SWINGING.

     Swinging usually refers to married couples or couples in a committed relationship, having sex with another couple or indulging in group sex with other people. In most cases it’s usually the male leading the female to partake but there are more & more couples these days who are making the decision together to go out & be more adventurous in their sex lives. I find swinging to be a different thing to group sex, I mean group sex could be you & a bunch of mates on a night out ending up in a hotel room & getting it on. During the height of my clubbing days that’s exactly what used to happen. I’d be out on the prowl with my boyfriend for a sweet & sexy little thing I could corrupt, yes sounds bad of me doesn’t it! On most occasions we would bump into someone we liked but lo & behold the girl always had a boyfriend & the boyfriend always had friends, so who was I to refuse a bunch of strangers, I mean I am most obliging & very kind…hehehe. So that’s how my group sex experiences happened, random, out of nowhere sex with a bunch of people I didn’t know & would never see. That is group sex in my mind. Swinging on the other-hand requires a certain set of strict rules. For one everybody participating has to be in complete consent & there is never any pressure, especially as most of the participants are couples. The reason there are strict rules is so that people who have bad intentions can’t prey on the ones just wanting to have some safe adult fun.

      Where couples are concerned when having sex with another couple, there are always ground rules. Even with rules, swinging is a difficult thing for some partners. It’s a very easy scenario to feel insecure in, some men have even felt emasculated after trying swinging with their wives for the first time. I think it’s important to understand why you & your partner want to even try swinging, it’s something you need to really discuss extensively, rehearse every outcome first.

     For some people swinging becomes an insatiable thirst that has to be fulfilled at all costs, almost like an adrenalin rush. That’s when it can get a little iffy. Some men find after extended periods of being in the swinging scene that they can’t achieve gratification unless they’re are having sex & watching other people. Unfortunately, that kind of lust is going to be exceedingly difficult to fulfil as it’s hard to find many people with the same amount of urge.

     Whilst swinging is a very mature thing to do, I still recommend getting educated about it first. There are many swingers clubs who would be more than willing to accommodate your enquiries. If all else fails go onto u-tube, you’d be surprised at what kind of useful info you’ll find there, but most importantly, talk, talk you your partner first! Oh & if you’re going to try the group sex thing with random people just make sure you are safe, safe as in physical security & sexually! That’s one thing about swingers clubs, they encourage safe sex & provide all the implements you would need, also couples are really careful about STI’S so are usually very careful.

 

Explore away lovers!!

                                                                                                            

Love Lexi XXX