FETISH OF THE WEEK...VOYEURISM & EXHIBITIONISM.
There is some research that suggests that 1 in 3 people enjoy either watching sex or exposing themselves in public. Now I know what you’re thinking, you’re thinking of the guy that runs around in a beige overcoat flashing himself to unsuspecting passers-by. Or the guy that creeps around hiding behind bushes watching people or a peeping tom at a bedroom window. Ok admittedly there are people with extreme fetishes or obsessions who do that, but those kinds of acts seem to be something of the past. I’m talking about the modern day voyeur & exhibitionist.
Just think about it how many of us like to watch pornography or watch our partners or lovers in the midst of a sexual act. Lots of us love to watch in the mirror as we’re having sex. It’s in our nature to watch, observe & be interested. Although voyeurism is usually a fetish that is frequented by men, I do believe women aroused by watching sexual acts, are fast growing in numbers. I myself as well as a large number of my girlfriends go to strip clubs &fetish clubs & often get a little frisky after watching a show. People that go to swingers parties are a group of people who often enjoy voyeurism & exhibitionism. Indulging in the pursuit of not only partaking in sex, but a large part of the success of a swingers party is to create a perfect voyeuristic atmosphere too.
Exhibitionism is another story. Although it is illegal to expose or have sex in public, how many of us have worn very revealing clothing in public to be noticed. There are so many young modern day women who go out of a night & end up exposing themselves & get a kick out of it. Not to mention the amount of young couples that either have sex or perform sex acts in a semi-public space in the complete knowledge that they may be caught at any moment. It truly is an added point of exhilaration that adds to the experience, it’s all exhibitionism! Many men & women got to the gym & wear either less or very revealing clothing, making a point of exhibiting their physical prowess, it’s a very common thing.
So you see you don’t have to be that sleazy, creepy guy in a beige trench-coat hiding behind the tree to flash people walking by, to be an exhibitionist. Just have a little think about it & you might find that you are actually one. In fact, I believe we really are all secret exhibitionists & why not, as long as we don’t offend or hurt others or disgrace ourselves, well not too much anyway…hehehe.
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