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BOOTY CALLS...YAY OR NAY?

     So everyone has their own take on booty calls, their own rules they govern themselves by. But for some reason the rules for women are different to the rules for men. Women still concern themselves with judgment & so they should to a certain extent especially when it can ruin reputations. Men however, can quite easily & openly admit to having a booty call on the ready & on speed dial, whereas women aren’t so open to admitting they’re on someone’s booty call list. I suppose in most people’s minds that’s the main difference when it comes to booty calls, are you the one doing the calling or are you the one being called? It shouldn’t matter though should it?

     The way I see it is that if you’re the one doing the calling then fabulous & if you’re the one being called, even better! But there are so many different factors to whether you feel good about the booty call or not. Is your fuck buddy in a relationship, are you & your lover courting one another, are you both very clear on the situation? All those things come into play when we’re talking about frequent bump & grind calls. I think the main thing is being clear on the situation, as long as you’re both on the same wave length & are both clear on what your needs are, then all should be well. If on the other hand, you have a bad feeling about it & you’re feeling used or your feelings start to change & are not reciprocated, then you have a problem, it’s no longer a booty call. It doesn’t really matter whether you’re the one calling all the time or not, everybody has needs, it’s about keeping a constant check on how you both feel about it.

      The problem with fuck buddies is that feelings do get involved. I mean it’s difficult to stay emotionally detached when you’re fucking the same person on a regular basis. My advice to prevent that from happening is keep a rotation with a couple of different lovers & keep it straight to the point. Botty calls are not for emotional support or friendships, they’re for sex, nothing more, nothing less. Keep things simple & life won’t get complicated. Just make sure you trust the person or people you’re regularly sleeping with. Keep it out of your circle of friends, as I said with all the social media bullying that goes on, reputations are at stake. Also there’s nothing wrong with saying no sometimes, you don’t have to be at someone’s beck & call, it’s not about them it’s about you! If you want sex, say yes, if you need sex, then make the call, just keep it simple. I know it’s harder to do than say, but trust me it can work, you just have to stick to your own ground rules.

     Oh & make sure the sex is worth it! The amount of times I’ve heard girlfriends complain about bad sex with their booty call is ridiculous, if it’s bad don’t settle just because you need a lay, a vibrator can meet your needs too you know!!!

 

 

Love Lexi XXX