WHAT IS A YIN & YANG MASSAGE?
A Yin & Yang massage involves three participants, a receiver, a leader & a follower. The leader symbolises Yang, their part in the massage is hard, fast, solid, hot, dry & a little more aggressive. Because of the nature of their part in the massage, the Yang is usually a male. The Yin is the complementary opposite of the Yang, usually a female, symbolising & acting out slow, cool, soft, moist, calming & tranquil movements. Using these techniques symbiotically creates a perfectly harmonious environment for the receiver. The male, Yang, takes the lead & the female, the Yin follows. Interestingly, the receiver never actually gets to see the person playing Yin, so this person really remains an enigma throughout the whole massage. The effect of this technique makes it hard for the mind to differentiate between the two forces, putting the mind in a state of complete relaxation & changing your perception of time helping you to switch off. This can sometimes be difficult to achieve, to switch off the daily grind & remove yourself psychologically from the stresses of life & that’s actually the whole purpose of getting a relaxing massage. You should be able to achieve this switch off enabling you to experience the full benefits of the massage but it doesn’t always happen, so that’s why the Yin & Yang is perfect for this. Having two forces of energy that are opposites in sensation, is the ultimate way to relax & completely unwind.
So the Yin & Yang massage can be either erotic by nature or therapeutic, therapeutic in the conventional sense. For the massage to be erotic you would have to keep an open mind if you are a male participant. It's about overruling our conventional views about sex & foreplay, if something feels good, then it feels good & you should just go with it. If you can imagine having an erotic massage that almost borders on the spiritual, then you can imagine the possibilities. Having two sets of hands exploring, caressing, enticing & teasing & never actually being able to see one of your masseuses, well the experience would be mind blowing. Laying there with your eyes closed, blind to who or what is being done to you & just savouring the full extent of the moment, feeling every single little touch in an utterly new way. Seeing nothing & only being able to create images in your mind’s eye about what is being done to you is a very intimate & erotic feeling. Not seeing therefore not knowing what the next move will be. This kind of experience would be a truly unique one & even if you are having a traditional therapeutic massage with the Yin & Yang technique, the sensation would be utterly invigorating. Being able to give yourself over entirely & give two other people complete control over your body, well it’s the ultimate massage indulgence isn’t it.
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