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FIRST TIME THREESOMES...SEX PLAY WITH BOUNADRIES.

     Having a threesome is a discussion that some couples end up having when trying to be more adventurous and inventive with their sex life. It’s kind of a grey area where neither party is sure how to proceed, making a conclusive decision can be quite difficult.  So whether you’re in a relationship or not, there are some ground rules that can help guide and make that decision a little easier for you.

ALWAYS BE ON THE SAME PAGE: Always make sure you both want the same thing out of a threesome just to establish that you are both aware that it’s for fun only.

SET YOUR GROUND RULES: This is the most important rule there is when it comes to threesomes. Set up your boundaries before you walk into having a threesome. Simple things like, what exactly is each partner going to be doing. You don’t want o do anything with the third party that’s going to upset and hurt your lover. You both have to be comfortable and happy with the acts you’re going to be performing.

SAFETY: Always make sure you use safety, especially when you may only be meeting the third party for the first time.

FIND THE RIGHT PERSON: Do some background work. When you’re finding a third person for a threesome get some background on them. just so that you have some piece of mind that they’re not going to end up being a psycho. Also you want to know that for your first threesome you’re going to be with the right person for both yourself and your lover, especially if it’s your first menage a trois.

NEUTRAL GROUND: I think it’s much easier to have a first time threesome with someone on neutral ground. It just causes less confusion to be in a place like a hotel rather than the personal space of someone’s home. Plus, if you never plan on seeing that person again your identities safe.

THINK OUTSIDE THE BOX: If you and your lover have never had a threesome before and are curious but hesitant then maybe think about going to a specialist place. Somewhere like an erotic massage parlour where the ladies are experts and know what they’re doing when it comes to couples and threesomes. The benefit of going to a place like that is you can walk out at any time if it’s not for you and not have to experience any awkwardness. Not to mention the fact that there’s no threat of personal attachment between the third party and the couple as it’s strictly professional.

 

So there you have it , some really helpful tips to keep in mind when exploring the possibility of having a threesome. Remember to try to always have fun no matter what.

 

Love Lexi XXX