FOREPLAY, A NECESSITY TO GREAT SEX.
TRY THIS GREAT WARMUP
As a warm up to the main event, start by massaging the length of her legs, from her upper thighs down to her ankles then focus on the feet, kneading her heels and all other points beneath. Then zero in on the toes and stretch them individually. Of course, if her impeccable hygiene encourages you to suck her toes, you’ll have her in ecstasy.
BOOST YOUR FOREPLAY RATIO
Improve the quality of foreplay and she’ll never again bug you about the quantity. If you act as if you’re just going through the motions to get to the sex, she’s going to notice, and it will take longer for her to excited. So get creative and go with your instincts. If you like how her calves feel, stroke them. If you like her butt, kiss it. When a man is visibly enjoying and loving what he’s doing, then it’s going to show and in turn drive her wild with desire.
Yes, the clitoris is the obvious place to focus your attention. Still, many men do wrong by it. When playing with the clitoris during oral sex experts advise to "focus on and off the clitoris". The clitoris reacts best to being teased, so you want to lick it and suck on it a little, build a little tension, then back off for a bit before going at it again.
DRIVE HER WILD WITH THE ‘FIGURE 8’ TECHNIQUE
The figure-8 tongue technique: When you’re at her service down below, work the supersensitive area around her clitoris in a figure-8 pattern. Arouse her with gentle sucking until the little button swells, then carefully expose the area with your fingers. Use the slippery underside of your tongue to circle it to the left and then to the right. With the rougher top side of the tongue, flick from right to left and then up and down. Finally work up to figure 8s, alternating between your tongue's smooth underside and firmer tip. Constantly vary the degrees of pressure you use.
A BODY PART YOU SHOULDN’T NEGLECT
Often overlooked as mere roadblocks to the vagina, the labia are packed with nerve endings and are not to be ignored. Hold each one between your thumb and forefinger and massage it, working your way up and down.
BEST POSITION FOR HITTING THE G-SPOT
Most experts say that G-spot stimulation works best when you do it by hand, since it allows for more subtle manipulation. But that means less fun for you. To get at her G-spot during intercourse, enter her doggy-style from the rear. Keep your hands on her hips and pull her towards you each time you thrust forward.
KISSING KEEPS HER GOING
Women get their greatest erotic pleasure from frequent, passionate kissing. If you get the sense that she’s starting to lose interest, kissing is always the best way to bring her back into it.
Just remember that passionate kissing doesn’t always mean frantically swabbing out her tonsils. Try to mix up your tongue play with the occasional closed-mouth kiss on her nose, eyes, and forehead.
REWARD HER BRAVERY
When she initiates the action, make an extra effort to please her sexually and to let her know how much you approve. Tell her you loved her initiation. Sometimes women wonder if you’re going to perceive initiation as negative or if it might make you uncomfortable.
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