SEX TOY OF THE WEEK...HANDCUFFS.
In recent year’s handcuffs have become quite a socially acceptable receptacle of sex play. Their image is everywhere, you pass them in sex shops and you see them in the costume sections of party hire and dollar shops. They no longer have any sinister connotations, instead have somewhat become a little bit of a joke.
In reality though, handcuffs are a serious bit of kink hardware. I’m not talking about your cheaply China made bit of plastic, I’m talking about a beautiful piece of ingenuity. Real handcuffs with real weight and craftsmanship, the ones you definitely know you’re wearing when they grind into your wrist bones in exquisite pain. Ok admittedly those types of handcuffs are for BDSM devotees, so rest assured there are less hardcore ones for all other sexual explorers.
So how can you use handcuffs to spice up your sex life. Well one of the most playful ways to introduce handcuffs to your bedroom repertoire is to handcuff your lover to a chair while you do a striptease or lap dance, dimmed lights, sexy music and hot lingerie or a super hot routine would drive anyone crazy with desire. Fluffy handcuffs are perfect to secure wrists and ankles to a bed during foreplay. Nothing more could add a real sense of intense anticipation than to be teased while restrained and having absolutely no control over what’s happening to you, what a way to drive someone to the brink of ecstasy. Handcuffs are also fantastic to use during a range of sex positions like the starfish, doggy, the screwdriver and many more.
There’s just so many kinky ways to use handcuffs in your sex life, all you have to do is play and explore. Just make sure you always have they keys handy if they require keys, NEVER shove the keys in any orifice please and always make sure the person you’re playing with is someone you trust implicitly. Otherwise you can always buy ones that don’t require a complex locking mechanism and just get ones you can undo by yourself.
Play safe everyone!
Love Lexi XXX