SEXTING...A BRIEF GUIDE.
# Firstly I think it’s important to get to know your sexting opponent. Do some reconnaissance if you don’t know them too well. Knowing a bit about someone will help in the way with which you approach them when sexting.
# If the person you’re wanting to sext isn’t somebody your very intimate with it’s probably best to start with a softer approach. Maybe try some cheeky sexual banter to feel things out before you head into the more heated stuff. Even if you are on more intimate terms with your sexting partner it might still be a good idea to start off subtle, I mean you don’t want to peak to soon even if it is by phone.
# Be alluring, yes you can still be seductive when sexting. Intrigue your sexting friend, tease them, create a visual image for them by using different adjectives. When you do get right into the sexting you can weave an entire fantasy or scenario. Sexting can go on for days when you’re really creative and playful with your words.
# If sexting is something new between you and your sexting friend you may want to choose your words carefully. Some words can be too crass and crude for some people, even for a partner or lover. The last thing you want to do is turn what’s meant to be fun and enticing, into an insult.
# Sometimes people can get stuck with what to write, not everyone has a good grasp of creative writing, but that’s ok keeping it simple and precise is ok too as long as it’s light hearted. A good way to about getting a better feel for sexting is to use erotic fiction as a guide. There are plenty of quotes and phrases you can find and use if your finding it hard to form your own words. Eventually when more acquainted with sexting, both you and your partner can actually use the same book. Playfully using it as a guided script, almost acting out sexy scenes via sexting.
# Sexting is a fantastic way to express yourself sexually, you can often say things in text that you might not have the courage to say face to face. So it’s a great tool to be bold and daring with your suggestions. Don’t be shy but at the same time be respectful towards the person your sexting.
# I think sending sexy photos are totally acceptable with sexting. Obviously if you’re not too familiar with the person you’re sexting, maybe be a little more tactful with the nature of your poses. You don’t want to put yourself in a compromising position that may bite you in the ass later on, so you do have to be careful with how explicit the photos are. Of course if the person you’re sexting is your husband/wife or boyfriend/girlfriend then that’s a different matter. In saying that just remember, sometimes less is more and there’s a major difference between tacky and seductive.
# Don’t forget sexting is supposed to be playful and light hearted, cheeky and inviting. Don’t take it too seriously just have fun with it.
Sext you later lovers!
Love Lexi XXX